SEX DREAMS. ARE'NT THEY GREAT ?

A bit frustrating and a bit embarassing when you see that person again especially if you have starched the sheets but there is a soothing peace to them regardless.
You fantasize about the girl next door or the guy next door , or the waitress that serves you coffee every morning or the mail room boy or even your niece or sister in law, who cares but to have a sex dream changes the whole dimension of your relationship with them.

Yes there is intrigue as to wether it would be the same as in your dream, but you are not responsible for that dream. For one thing , no involvement, not having to go through the nitty gritty of everyday living with that person which might sober you up if you had to.( or at least wake you up.)

Are you being unfaithful to your spouse or love interest ? I think not. It gives you I find, the possibility of having a sexual relationship with another person without actually risking alimony payments , losing the house and your pension fund. It is as if you were sleepwalking, no one can hold you accountable for that.

They are beneficial in a way because after you have been in a relationship for a good
while you stick to the relationship only because you feel you could no longer attract anyone. Going through those nights of talking about your youth and other crap like that seems too big a job.

As exciting as discovering another person can be, you can't imagine reliving that night you were so nervous you could'nt get it up.You kind of want to keep the flab hidden and a bit of the sagging which you or your wife put up with, because you have the same type of wear .

So sex dreams are good. They give you confidence and boost your self-image, also they keep you sane.